No friends

   I’m sure that whatever age you are, you have found yourself alone, with no one to support you, at least once in your life. But don’t worry. It is usually something normal that everybody goes through; things will eventually get better in time!

    The most problematic period is highschool, when most teens succumb to peer pressure. In my opinion, school is the place where you find out who your real friends are. But when you do find yourself in the position of the lonely one, what can you do? One of the most important things to do is to stay calm, don’t become despressed overnight just because your ,,so called” bff gave up on you. You have to keep your head up and not let anyone put you down. No matter how much you want a friendship to last, you must remember that it is not a thing that can be forced so don’t become too clingy.

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   Moreover, you have to learn to get over the loss of your friends and start looking for others. You shouldn’t have hatred towards those who left you, since you don’t really know if they will ever come back to apologise. Maybe after a short period of time you will become friends again. Try making small talk to other colleagues or classmates, search for common interests such as sports, movies or music. You might be surprised by what you’ll find.

    In conclusion, having no friends sucks, I know, but it may be a blessing in disguise. You never know what other people are there who want to become close to you.

 

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5 thoughts on “No friends

  1. skynimbus says:

    I think your post is really great, because a lot of people go through this phase of ‘no friends’. I think they need to know that all bad things pass, and this will, too. 🙂

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